“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”
Aesop
Do good where you are. It’s as simple as that. We often have the notion that because we aren’t famous or do not have a multitude of resources that we can’t make a difference or have an impact on someone else’s livelihood. We can give ourselves so many excuses as to why something won’t work. I don’t have the time, the money, the right connections. Well, that’s where you may need to change your thought process. True, you may not be able to open a school in your hometown and send hundreds of underprivileged youth to college for free each year (Hey LeBron), but you can do something. You see, we may not be able to change the world in a matter of minutes, but our actions can impact and influence one person and that will make a world of difference.
You may also say, we have enough of our own troubles where I live, shouldn’t we start here first?
To that I say, why can’t you do both? Yes, it is quite possible to serve your everyday community as well as invest in the community that you’re visiting. After all, it’s the place you will make your home for at least a few days. You’re sharing their resources, culture, etc. Why not?
I can guess your rebuttal.”I’ve worked my butt off for 360 days and I can’t use 5 days to just relax? Of course you can. But, giving back doesn’t have to feel like work. Tap into the talents in which you naturally possess. Are you good with children and enjoy playing basketball? Well, take your jump shot to the neighborhood and spend a couple of hours of shooting hoops with the kids. They’ll enjoy your presence (unless your game is trash and they’ll laugh you off the court) and you’ll have lots of fun too…not to mention some good cardiovascular activity. Seriously, kids have boundless energy. Do you have an infectious smile and the gift of gab. Visit a language school such as Habla Ya (insert link) to offer to teach English (or any other language you are fluent in) to the residents. If tourism is a major money maker for the economy in that region, they will be grateful to have “access to more opportunities” by being more fluent in another language.
I recently returned from a trip to Barbados for a destination wedding and knew in advance that my time was limited during my already short stay. However, I stumbled upon Pack for a Purpose, a wonderful organization that assembles lists of supplies for local schools, partners with local hotels/resorts for drop off locations, and delivers them to the schools for you. My Barbados post will be up soon with more details regarding this experience.
We oftentimes have the tendency to take for granted the fact that we live in a “highly developed” country and there are MANY who do not have accessibility to what we have. You can gain a global outlook and catch a glimpse of the conditions others have to live in DAILY. Hello, perspective check.We must be careful not to play in to the negative stigma that comes with what we’ve been told all our lives. Go out there, explore the world, and develop your own frame of reference.
I’ll highlight some ways I have been engaged and will continue to update you all in future posts about any deeds I’m involved in. Do you know of any fun and creative ways to give back to your community? Have you done any of them and how did it go? I want to hear from you!
Lakiesha BJuly 17, 2018 3:52 pm
I’m so proud of you… Thank you for being such an inspiration… I love how you are always a busy bee but never too busy to take out time to pour into others!!! I love you!!!! To be such a light and sprinkle your glitter everywhere you go!! Anything you need let me know.. #motivation
RitaJuly 24, 2018 6:00 pm
Thanks so much love! I’m inspired by your encouraging words and hopefully others will do the same! Love you more!
Michelle TJuly 16, 2018 6:29 pm
Good stuff! Can’t wait to read more and please let me know of any projects I can assist with! *exciting *
RitaJuly 16, 2018 7:30 pm
Chelle! Thanks for your continuous support! I’m looking forward to it and I will definitely let you know!
KaylaJuly 16, 2018 5:41 am
Awesome insight and perspective Rita!!! I love what you are doing 😊
RitaJuly 16, 2018 7:29 pm
Kayla! Thanks so much for your kind words and thanks for reading!
Tasia KingJuly 2, 2018 9:33 pm
Rita, you gave me a new perspective! It doesn’t take much to offer our time or resources. Really the feeling of doing so is priceless. Thanks for sharing, and I can’t wait to read more. I’m proud of you friend!
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:44 am
Sis! It is priceless indeed! My purpose is to inspire others to do the same. Thanks for your continuous support!
Crystal PrioleauJune 30, 2018 12:15 pm
I LOVE this! It is an awesome idea and not difficult at all when doing it from the heart. Rita, you’re an inspiration!
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:42 am
Thanks friend! That’s so sweet! Thanks for reading!
Sharon NelsonJune 29, 2018 2:12 pm
I have to say that Rita’s Digest is well overdue! So proud of you! Never thought about taking a moment out of a brief vacation to take the time to pour into others, do a good deed or simply learn more about the culture. We can all do more and you are challenging us to do just that! CONGRATULATIONS on taking this step!
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:41 am
Yes, sis! I’m looking forward to when we can carve out some time during our future vacations to make a difference! Thanks for much for your continuous support!
Pamela JacksonJune 28, 2018 9:24 am
I love this, Rita! Our purpose here on earth is to be able to help each other. The smallest act of kindness can have the biggest impact. I’m proud of your work. Keep being awesome!
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:35 am
Yes,Pam! You definitely get it and I’m glad this resonated with you. Thanks so much for your support!
Betty Grice RichardsonJune 28, 2018 8:40 am
Great job 👍🏽
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:33 am
Thank you so, so much for reading!
Jessica RavenellJune 27, 2018 10:29 pm
Small but mighty…I love idea of leaving small blessings everywhere we go and even on vacation!!! Normally we do enjoy taking in sights, learning about the culture, history and current lifestyles but adding the element of giving back is very refreshing!!!
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:33 am
Yes friend! My purpose is to inspire others to do the same! Thanks for your unwavering support!
Renee ThomasonJune 27, 2018 10:11 pm
Love this Rita…
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:31 am
Hey Renee! Thanks for reading!
Joi ClarkeJune 27, 2018 9:46 pm
I’m loving this blog. I always say babysteps are the place to start. I became a guardian ad litem to help children be safe and have a voice. Not that I get to do it as much as I want to, but it’s a start and I make a difference for at least one child. Happy Birthday!!! Keep doing what you do!!!
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:31 am
Thanks Joi! I had no clue you are a guardian ad litem as well. That’s a BOSS chick move! LOL! Thank you so much for your kind words!
ShanetraJune 27, 2018 8:21 pm
This is awesome! I’ve never thought about giving back while on vacation(other than tipping generously), I can’t wait until our next trip see how I can give back!
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:28 am
Thanks Shanetra! I, too “tip generously” and I’m sure they REALLY appreciate it! LOL! It’s also refreshing to know we can do more. I’m looking forward to your future experiences and would love to hear all about it!
LitaJune 27, 2018 8:02 pm
Love this! I can’t wait to read more.
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:25 am
Lita! I’m glad you enjoyed it! Thanks so much for reading!
Cedric WrightJune 27, 2018 7:54 am
This is amazing! Your site is refreshing and I enjoyed reading about your self-less idea to give back even while you were on a “wedcation.” Sometimes we forgot that even the small positive gestures are impactful (trimtab principle). Continue not only being my inspiration and biggest fan, but a “trimtab” for the world! I love your heart!
RitaJuly 3, 2018 9:24 am
Baby! Thank you so much for your continuous support! I look forward to many more adventures in life together!
Cedric WrightJune 27, 2018 7:14 am
Happy Birthday!
RitaJuly 2, 2018 9:47 am
Thanks babe! This is 35!